Sex, Love & Relationships in Australia

Author Archive: sexdownunder

I’m horny

It starts with her beauty in my eyes, it moves to her scent in my nose, then how her soft skin feels against my fingers and lips. Very intoxicating. Do you admit to being horny?  You know those times of the day where your mind begins to think, “right now I’d like to…”.  Why is …

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If the boat ain’t rockin’…

I often see couples whose relationship has improved to the point that the main tension is gone, who are suddenly afraid to address underlying issues in case they suddenly, “rock the boat”. Fear that addressing the underlying issues may push the relationship back into turmoil in effect halts the relationship from progressing.  This avoidance approach …

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Accidental Communication

Hello again fellow bloggers.  I know I’ve been extremely slack and hope my followers haven’t all deserted me for more erotically enticing posts. Thought I’d share my latest adventure. Day One: Last Thursday I received a text message from an unknown phone number: No one has inspired me as you do.  Either way we go… …

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Fun and Games

How often do you sit down with your partner and play a game? I’m referring to old fashioned board or card games.  The things we used to play before technology took over! I love playing games.  I don’t believe age should be a barrier. I’d rather die laughing than bored. My favourite games are those …

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Is One Ever Enough?

I thought I was quite enlightened about sexual relationships until a friend of mine informed me he and his partner practice Polyamory. Polyamory is the practice of having more than one intimate partner at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.  it is different from swinging which is sex with others for …

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What is Love ?

How is it possible that “What is Love” was the most searched phrase on Google in 2012 ? I really thought the most popular search would have been something more profound such as, “Why am I here” or “Who am I”. Or if we are specifically referring to “What is” questions then how about “What …

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Attracted to Married Men

I wrote last week about the advertising of an internet site specifically for people in committed relationships looking for affairs (see my post, “Isn’t it time you had an affair”). I was chatting to a guy today who told me of his experiences on this particular site.  Of the women he’s met from this site, …

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The Four Seasons of Sex Addiction

After speaking to many sex addicts and cheaters, I’ve noticed a link between their acting out and the weather.  My theory is that summer increases acting out. Of course there’s a bit of a contradiction in this as the definition of addiction indicates a lack of control over the behaviour.  I’m not inferring the addiction …

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The SIX-Second KISS

Have you ever timed yourself kissing?  Until recently I hadn’t either.  It sounds rather strange doesn’t it? Recently I became more focussed on how I kiss. The length of a kiss definitely makes a difference to the feelings you get. I’m guessing that like me you hardly notice a peck on the cheek. You may …

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Relationship Resolutions

Have you made your New Years Resolutions yet ? Is there any point ?  I don’t think so, at least not individual resolutions. How about Relationship Resolutions ? These are goals you make with your partner.  I don’t recommend you make them for the entire year, perhaps just for the next three months. Why do …

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