Attracted to Married Men
I wrote last week about the advertising of an internet site specifically for people in committed relationships looking for affairs (see my post, “Isn’t it time you had an affair”).
I was chatting to a guy today who told me of his experiences on this particular site. Of the women he’s met from this site, nearly all are single!
I asked him why there’s single women on a site designed for married cheaters. He told me that these women target married men or those in long term relationships as they don’t want a relationship. He told me women are looking for men to spoil them, take them out for dinner, possibly buy them gifts, in return for sex.
Seems to me like there’s some pretty messed up thinking out there! Every woman I’ve met who has been cheated on describes it as the most devastating event in their life. Yet women are part of the problem. It’s not simply men.
Here’s an article on why one woman targets married men:
- I only sleep with married men (thesun.co.uk)
The woman actually claims to be doing men a favour! She also believes her behaviour is harmless as she’s not forcing the men into cheating.
What this woman doesn’t realise is that she’s not respecting herself. I wonder what her morals and values are and whether they are being compromised by her actions?
I think this woman and all the other single women cheating with married men are fooling themselves into believing they are in control and “happy”. In reality their happiness is based on a superficial and meaningless relationship. The costs are high for everyone.
What are your thoughts on why single women chase married men?